on: bonds
"bonds" being a post i made a while ago.
we are close now! i am very thankful i texted her like i did at the time. i am so so thankful. she is a wonderful friend.
i am appreciative, generally, of relationships that are formed in the way ours was. it is very beautiful, and i think there are so many people that are waiting to be asked things like "so what do you like?" or "want to hang out?" or "want to be friends?"
i am a big fan of "want to be friends". its often responded to with something like, "yeah!" but then, how do you "be friends"? laying the details of that--how to "be friends"--is awesome. because it depends on the person, and so you've really just decided to go over exactly how you each view friendship, before you even got into it. how efficient!
now, like, on bonds (actual bonds, rather than my specific post on them, i suppose)
i will .. write that .. later .